I own a M20K 231. The 252 does have a few amenities that the 231 lacks, but I couldn't be happier with my 231. The 252 does make engine management easier, but as @DonMuncy points out, engine management becomes quite a non-issue with proper training and flying.
I would be cautious about buying a 231 that doesn't have a good engine monitoring system. The TSIO-360-GB engine was original equipment in the 231 but later models have the TSIO-360-LB engine, which is considered to be superior due to engineering improvements. I have the JPI-900 which makes it very easy to manage the engine without over-boosting, and to keep CHT's at appropriate temperatures. I added the Turboplus intercooler and Black Magic pressure controller to my 231 after I purchased it.
My POH calls for 40" of Manifold Pressure when taking off, but I was trained to use 36" as max, before adding the intercooler. I never run 40" of manifold pressure.
My useful load is 950 lbs but will go up in the fall a bit after we upgrade the panel. With full fuel, my wife and I can take bring 120 lbs of baggage with a 6-hour range and IFR reserves.
Travelling we typically fly in the mid-teens or lower flight levels and cruise at 160-165kts LOP or 175-180kts ROP.
LOP = ~10 gal/hr
ROP = ~12 gal/hr
I would guess that there is about a $50k premium for a 252 over a 231, but I am sure that other's here have a better idea of the delta. If you can find a great 252 for a price that you can afford - GREAT!! If not, I wouldn't hesitate to buy a 231 in good shape.