After bouncing around the sky in those MC-130's, you deserve the best you can get. Stay patient and look at F's and J's. From everything you've said, asked, and based on your being new to GA airplane ownership, the golden rule of purchasing the best conditioned, newest plane holds very true, and will cause you the fewest headaches, maintenance issues, and upgrade expenses, down the road.
I believe that will be an early J model for you with most of your wish list gizmos already installed. It's a question of invest more now in a newer plane, or pay more later to make things better. Aviation tuition, so to speak, which is not cheap.
This from an "old" F-4E driver, whose first and only GA plane has been an M20J....since 1994. Best of luck, and Go Air Force!