The POH is very specific in NOT labeling those speeds on the first chart as either "suggested" or "recommended" because they aren't. FAR and the Pilot's Handbook have lots of good general data, and if that's your source for determining Mooney landing speeds, and it works for you, then so be it, but you're coming in too fast. Some slow flight, just above a stall, and maybe holding it off at 5 feet all the way down a runway with a Mooney experienced CFII will help.
As I and others have suggested, try 1.2 X the stall speed shown on your second graph as your over the numbers flair target, and you'll get safer landings, fewer teeth jarring touchdowns, shorter rollouts, less stress on your landing gear, lowered chance for fuel leaks, less probability of a prop strike, and still be able to impress your passengers with greasers. I guarantee it.
Suspecting you don't believe me when I say your dragging it in too hot, maybe Bob Kromer, former Mooney test pilot, Mooney President and MAPA Director can help you:
http://www.mooneypilots.com/mapalog/M20J%20Evaluation/M20J_evaluation_report.html
Good luck, and come to a Florida luncheon again so we can discuss it further.