Just to close the discussion, this is a summary of my Seattle trip, as may be useful to others.
Airport: I went to KBFI (Boeing-King County Field) Other than the east side parallel taxiway under construction, everything is good. I got to see a brand new 787 taking off as I was on downwind to land. Very cool. There is an aviation museum that I did not get to go to, but it looked to be impressive in size.
FBO: I took her advice and went to Aeroflight. They were not fancy like some high dollar jet stops, but everything was good, though somewhat disrupted by the construction. Fuel was cheaper than the other FBO's and parking was free for the entire stay with a fuel purchase (scheduled 4 nights, but I left a day early). Nice pilot comforts such as the planning lounge, refreshments, couches, etc. Also, they don't move your plane if ask to keep your spot. Important for we Mooney owners who fear for the vulnerable front linkage.
Airspace: I was able to get Class B clearance arriving and departing, just for asking. Controllers made it easy to find my way around, but I was fortunate to have clear and sunny everyday I was there. Watch for traffic low over the city either giving tours, heading to the nearby float base, or coming to KBFI with you. I saw several planes in the air everytime.
Scenic route: Never got to try it. Looking at the terminal area chart, if you stay below 3000 you can fly over the water and past all the good spots without entering Class B. A GPS certainly helps here.
-dan