My wife has no interest in flying in my plane although she supports me 100%. She reluctantly flys the BIG JETS ! I was flying before we met and she had a bad experience as a kid flying with a family friend. When we started a family I agreed to take a hiatus from flying until they were out of college. When the youngest was out (Embry Riddle grad, now Piedmont Airlines Pilot), she suddenly said to me, you can go back flying now. 25 years off, I was back in the saddle after 10 hrs of dual and signed off. I bought a Sundowner with another pilot and we had it for 7 years. When he lost his medical, he agreed to sell the plane, which he did. The wife surprised me with, "What are you going to fly now?", I told her I would rent and she said that I should buy a plane that I wanted and enjoy myself. When we went to look at the Mooney, she got no closer than 10 ft, as if it would suck her into it and said "It looks nice".
That was 3 years ago now and I've not looked back. I fly mostly either dual for currency or flying dogs for Pilots N Paws with a friend. Most of my long trips are alone visiting friends or relatives. Going to Gettysburg on July 5th to see the re-enactment with my Brother-in-Law (he's driving from Vermont), then Oshkosh.
If I had to do it again, I'd marry someone who flew.
BILL