N6719N
"Rules and recommendations are usually there for a pretty good reason. If you land in a crosswind situation where the crosswind component is high enough (or that side gust comes at the wrong time), you will run out of rudder, and there will be no way to keep the airplane straight down the runway and prevent side loads and potentially damaging stresses to your aircraft, regardless of how much skill you possess."
My instructor always wanted full flap landings. Then I tried to land on a very gusty day and realized I might not have enough rudder. I decided to go around, but the density altitude was over 7000 and I was down to less than 65 knots and low. For a go around, my POH says full power till 65 knots, then after climb established, retract flaps, raise gear and open cowl flaps. The drag was very high and for awhile I doubted I could arrest the descent and get back to 65. After that experience, I wondered if there might be a better way. I checked the drag in different configurations starting at 110 KIAS in level flight. I found that gear down reduced speed by 22 knots, half flaps by 5 knots, 3/4 flaps by 15 knots and full flaps by 35 knots. With approach speed at 1.3Vso + half gust speed, I use 3/4 flaps up to about 20 knots, any higher than that - no flaps. Still use full flaps for short fields and low crosswinds.
What do you recommend?