I had a thorough conversation & recheck of the new w&b with the maintenance shop doing it now. Weight seems to be correct (I had the plane weighed last year at "my" first own annual (all tanks propperly drained by my A&P and me), and compared to that weight, the aircraft got about 18 lbs. heavier. Seems to be realistic, as the new design has more layers of different colours, and 2x clear paint coating. They also used a water spirit, so the measured weights are correct.
When I checked with my old w&b, it came out they used wrong arms (please correct me, but we measured the following: nose gear is -2cm, main gear is +167cm from STA 0). They used -3cm and +172cm for the calculation and got a empty CG position of 121,77 cm.
I don´t know, where they got their measurements... When the recalculation was done with the the shorter arms (they where measured by my A&P as well as they were used a few years ago in an old w&b, so I am sure they are correct !), it turned out that empty CG position is 117,33 cm.
Quite a shift, if you take into consideration, how small the changing in arms for calculation is ! But this makes the plane much more usable (otherwise, I would barely have been able to take baggage with me, and only small children on the rear seats) !
w&b sheet finally is issued new by the maintenance facility, and everything happy now ;-) !
As allways: thanks for all of your input´s !