Danny,
I am based in the Portland area at KHIO. I have owned my Mooney M20K (231) for more than 10 years. I don't have any deice equipment except for a hot prop and a heated Pitot tube yet I fly all year long. There have been days I don't go - mostly because of ice - but most days, I find are doable because the turbo opens up a huge altitude envelope.
Heading south from Portland, the bad weather often clears out around Medford or Redding. Sometimes, it doesn't but mostly it does. The Columbia River Gorge is always tricky because it makes its own weather. When things look doable in the Willamette Valley, the gorge might have an icing surprise for you.
As Richard Collins used to profess when writing about his fully weatherized P210 in Flying, he didn't do any more trips in his deiced bird than he would have done in one without it. I think that is the best philosophy. Plan wisely, fly most day, but stay home the days where you can't do it safely.
As for the Mooney 231. The weak spot is the single alternator. On an IFR bird, two alternators are almost a requirement. I have lost my alternator three times so far and it's no fun when all your equipment is electric. The strong point of the 231s is their relatively higher useful load than some of the other long-body models and the 252. Mine is 1000 pounds even. Not great, but okay for most trips with two people.
I have been very happy with my airplane, but I have only owned one airplane. If I had to do it again, I might get a 252 because most came with two alternators and the most advanced installation of the TSIO-360. I might also get a Cessna T182RG because they are really nice and they carry more, are bigger inside, and easier for passengers to get in and out of. Everything I have heard about the 252 makes me think it is the best of the models. Again, the problem with the 252 is the paltry useful load. If you put deicing equipment in it, the useful load just gets worse. The Encore is a newer version of the 252 with a higher useful load and is really sweet and worth getting if you can afford one.
Happily, I got a field approval for a second alternator and installed it last year. I really like knowing if my big finicky alternator kicks the bucket - or its weird elastomer bonded drive gear shraps - that I won't lose my instruments.
Good Luck, Mooneys are excellent airplanes. I wish people could still buy new ones.