New Mooney driver here as well -- congrats on getting a new bird.
On the rpm range this graph from Vantage O-360 (that is based on Lycoming) gave me a good explanation as to "why".
On leaning there is definitely a ton of difference between many schools of thought and recommendations. Lycoming graphs show best power at ~150F ROP and best economy at ~25F LOP. This is generally consistent with Mooney POH leaning recommendations. Depending on OAT and humidity so far I have seen some engine roughness leaning further past peak EGT. The specific consumption difference between running at peak EGT and 25F LOP should be in single digit % so it may not be very noticeable.