IANAL but....
I think you are going to have a hard time getting anything beyond what the insurance company is offering, the reason I say this is you insured your plane stating it had a value of $X, should you try to sue somebody for more $$ they are going to come back and simply say "you stated your airplane was worth $X and that was the agreed value you had with the insurance company." The only thing you might be able to get additional is stuff you had stored in or around the aircraft that wasn't part of the plane itself such as your camping gear, luggage, additional travel expenses, etc.
Hiring a lawyer gets very expensive very fast and unless you are going after somebody with deep pockets you may spend more on the attorney that you might be able to recover. I don't even know if proving gross negligence entitles you to collect beyond the value of the aircraft but you still need to realize there are no guarantees when going in front of a judge so you can lay out the perfect case detailing that gross negligence took place, you can still lose the case, but let's assume you proved gross negligence, won the case and with that you can get more than your declared value for the airplane, next problem, do the other pilots (or pilot's estate) have insurance or the dollars to pay a judgement? If not you'll be holding onto a worthless judgement for 20 years (Wisconsin I think the judgements expire after 20yrs).
As much as I know it sucks be thankful you and your family weren't injured. The aggravation of dealing with the loss of the aircraft is free, the experience is free, the additional loss just sucks.
On a side note, a very good friend of mine was parked 2 planes away (further from the runway) from you in the same row but left on Thursday morning so he missed the accident, He too got to deal with aggravation in 2021 when a plane clipped his wing taxing down a taxiway that was restricted to smaller aircraft, this happened two weeks prior to taking his instrument check ride. As I said the aggravation is free, just be happy you and your family weren't physically injured.