Thank-you all for the warm welcome and for your responses and comments. Rather than reply to each comment, I'll summarize my comments on the responses:
Carusoam: Yes, my biggest concern is why, and more concerning, why *three?
Cody: $40-50K is accurate, albeit low :~ I agree completely about the expectations for customer service. I'll take a look at 8120-11, thanks for the tip. The shop did respond with "the cotter pins are just standard stainless steel cotter pins (p/n MS24665-227). Parts like that are purchased in bulk and used as required, There is no 8130 for them as they are “standard parts”. I am not sure if the 8120-11 would apply here or not, but it is worth investigating further.
Art: That is yet another concern, only 1 leg was bent, what else may not have been installed according to the service manual?
M20: Yes, the current A&P said it seems common for shops to *not pull the suction screen - the maintenance shop that did the rebuild also did my first annual after the rebuild.. The current annual is my second after the rebuild. I try to get the plane in front of a different shop every 2-3 years, just for the extra set of eyes, then (usually) go back to the original shop.
Hyett: I would probably blame myself a bit if something happened on the ferry flight, and the engine shop, too, because that's who the ferry pilot likely spoke with to determine if he was willing to fly the plane. I did not hide any facts or any of my concerns. I told him that I was *not willing to fly the airplane, and I explained to him precisely why. I would not have even considered hiring someone to fly the airplane - that was the recommendation from the shop that performed the rebuild, which incidentally, is the *only party that has suggested flying the airplane. I have to try to balance risk with reward, and I do believe the risk is heavier than the reward, in spite of the fact that the ferry pilot had already accepted the risk.