Hello, new poster here. I've been a partner in a 201 for 8 years now, love my dirty bird. I've been an active member on the blue board (POA) for a long time now, and decided to stop in here for a while to look around.
As for crosswind, I once landed in a direct 90 degree 19G26 xwind. It wasn't pretty, the first two tries resulted in go arounds, and I told my wife on downwind the third time that we'd bug out for another airport if I couldn't land. I somehow got it to stick, but it wasn't pretty and I don't know if I'd try that again. About 60mi away was a runway that was pretty much pointed directly into the wind and we'd have gone there.