I like this post...Especially the underlying message of never being too confident with your plane. I was on a cross country form Los Angeles to Durango, CO with my family. We stopped in FLG, AZ to fuel my '62 M20C and to let my little guy stretch. I was expecting the typical crosswind landing at 00C, and told myself if it was too fast I'd opt for the larger runway 5 miles East. 30 min out I listened to ATIS, a bit nervous, like awating a sentencing. 29 knots, directly across. Shit. My fearless 10 yo daughter was up front, my 5 yo son and wife in back. I took the GPS off my yoke for full control and danced on the peddles like an athlete stretches before the big game...Not typical, my wife asked what I was doing..."Crosswinds," I replied curtly. Once in the pattern, it got really bumpy on base leg. I set up to come in high to avoid downdrafts. On final I pumped in full flaps so I could set down nice and slow on my Mooney legs (standar procedure)...I was all over the place at that point, but hoped it would smooth out in ground effect. If not, I was ready to go full power, gear up as quickly as possible and reminded myself nose down for airspeed, not nose up for altitude (full load and high attitude don't mix)...Almost down I flaired but gust pushed me over the grass...Plan B...The jolt of power instinctlively forced my wife to yell, "what happened." Daughter calmly said, "we are doing a go-around, papa was off the runway..." Bigger runway was sounding nice...But I wanted to see how the plane handled on downwind and base leg with no flaps...Once there, the plane settled in much better...on final, I felt the remarkable aerodynamics of Mooney fist hand. I was sticking my crab into the wind like velcro at the higher speed and sharper configuration, which showed I didnt need the larger space. Straightened out and nailed it. Wife wanted to marry me all over again...Still though, I was out of my comfort zone/safe minimums...My instructor taught me that such conditions are a game of statistics and that exceptions never make rules. So still today, for me, its all about my glide slope and handling on final, not about whether I've done it before...I think if he had not taught me that, I may have had a skewed sense of reality. I'm sure glad I wasnt in a Cessna.